Dating fatigue can mean dreading another round of swiping or wondering whether you’re repeating a familiar pattern. Tony Tedesco and relationship columnist Jen Kirsch help you identify what’s wearing you out, so you can consider a different approach.
Three months in, things have been going well. You’ve put the apps away, and then you’re starting over. If that cycle feels familiar, Tony puts a specific frustration into words, while Jen recognises a different worry behind her own reluctance.
What changes when you name the part you find exhausting? Before deciding whether to keep dating, there’s a question about what you want someone to add to a life you already enjoy.
Topics: dating fatigue, starting over, relationship patterns, inconsistent communication, emotional investment
GUEST: Tony Tedesco | @tedescotony
GUEST: Jen Kirsch | @jen_kirsch
Originally aired on2026-11-02
